Becoming Whole

As you’ve noticed, I haven’t really posted anything on Single In Christ in a while. It’s not what you think. I haven’t quit. God gave me this and I intend to see it through to the end. Honestly, I just needed a break. It’s overwhelming to think about singleness all the time, especially when I don’t want that for my life. It felt like Single In Christ turned into something other than the vision God originally gave me.

This blog should be about me and my adventures as a single Christian woman. Somehow, it got away from that. I feel like it turned into me speaking from a place of bitterness and hurt. I got so tired of speaking from that dark place. I want to speak from a place of healing and wholeness. I don’t want to speak to people from a wound. There’s no hope in a wound, hope is found in the healing of that wound.

So, I am taking the last 3 months of 2018 to work on me. The last thing I want to do is be bound and keep myself and others single because I’m living, writing, and speaking from a hopeless place. As I take this time, I realize how religious and legalistic I was. Please forgive me. I apologize. I am freer now. I am more whole now. I want you as free and whole as I now feel.  

While on this sort of sabbatical, I have spent more time praying and being with God than I ever have. Thanks to God,  a wonderful support system of beautiful ladies, and a great pastor, I’ve let a lot of stuff go. I am revamping my life and going after everything God has for me. I’m becoming more open and transparent. I can no longer be the pray and do nothing kind of woman. In the new year, Single In Christ is different because I am different. I will post consistently in the new year and will have a YouTube page as well. Thanks for sticking with me. I hope you continue to follow me on my adventures as a single Christian woman. Remember to be led by the Holy Spirit in all you do!